Islam is a religion of Rahmah, Mercy, and compassion. Rasulullah ﷺ was sent as “a mercy to all the worlds” (QS. Al-Anbiya: 107). This mercy is not only shown in grand gestures, but also in the smallest of our daily adab (manners). Sometimes, the simplest acts of kindness reflrect the beauty of Islam more than long speeches.
Here are five simple ways to embody Rahmah in everday life:
Respect Those Who Are Starting Their Hijrah
Every journey of faith is personal and precious. When someone begins their hijrah, whether by changing their appearance, habits, or mindset our duty is to support them, not ridicule them. Respecting their efforts is part of adab. Remember, Allah loves those who take even one small step toward Him.
Choose to Forgive, Even When It Hurts
Forgiveness is not always easy, especially when our hearts still ache. Yet, choosing to forgive is an act of adab that reflects our hope for Allah’s forgiveness. The Prophet ﷺ taught us, “The strong person is not the one who can westle others down, but the one who controls himself when angry.” (HR. Bukhari & Muslim). Let go, and Allah will heal.
Let Silence Be Kindness
If our words cannot be gentle, silence is better. Holding back harsh words is itself an act of mercy. In many cases, silence prevents hurt, calms, the heart, and preserves relationships. As the Prophet ﷺ advised, “Whoever believes in Allah and the last Day, let him speak good or remain silent.” (HR. Bukhari & Muslim).
Listen With Patience
True listening requires patience. Allowing others to finish speaking, even when we disagree, is part of adab. By listening sincerely, we show respect and humility. Sometimes, giving someone the space to be heard is itself a form of Rahmah that lightens their burden.
Say “Thank You” With Sincerity
Gratitude is not only for Allah, but also for people. Saying “Thank You” when someone helps us is a simple act of kindness that reflects the teachings of Islam. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever does not thank people has not thanked Allah.” (HR. Tirmidzi).
Rahmah is not something abstract, it is lived through adab in our daily interactions. Respect, forgiveness, silence, patience, and gratitude are all small acts, yet they carry immense weight in the sight of Allah. By practicing them, we show that Islam is truly a religion of mercy. Let’s strive to embody this Rahmah every day, so that when people meet us, they feel the beauty of Islam through our manners before they even hear our words.
